10 Flower Essences For Healthy Relations

How can we create Healthy relations and what does it take to do that

As humans we are social beings. As we are part of a society and we live in a society it is an integral part of life to be able to relate with other people. Rather than just relating with other people, it would be more beneficial to manage to have Healthy Relations!

What are healthy relations

So what does it mean to have healthy relations? As I feel deep inside my heart, asking myself this question and reflecting to the healing and the awakening that some of the Diamond Age Flower Essences gave me, the answer that comes up is : An image with people who first of all have a good and peaceful relation with themselves. After that I see the people connecting with each other from this peaceful inner space, respecting, recognizing and accepting each other as unique manifestations of existence. When we are able to meet with ourselves and other people in this conscious way, we can recognize, respect and take care of our needs and desires, as well of those of others. We can be aware of where our individual freedom starts and where it ends. We can be aware of our boundaries and those of others also.

So the foundation of having healthy relations with others is to have a very solid and healthy relation with ourselves. This is what I have been shown from nature, existence and Diamond Age Flower Essences and this is what I can share with you!

The beginning of troubles

Most of the imprints and definitions regarding Relations we received them unconsciously in the early ages of our life. We did this by absorbing the relational patterns that our parents had, our broader family, their friends and the conditions that were available at the society that we grew up. So the whole concept about what it means to relate with somebody else was limited to the information that we had available at the environment that we grew up. In the same time somebody else who was growing at another part of the world or just at the next door, was having different experiences and standards regarding relations and created different concepts.

The experience of life influenced the whole definitions that we created regarding relations and also about everything else in life. So if we saw our parents being in conflict with each other, if we experienced disappointment, fear or other painful experiences, most likely our relations with other people will be influenced from the beliefs and the limitations that we created from those experiences.

The good news

Through my seminars, individual sessions and meetings with people as far as I know nobody had a perfect childhood and I don’t know if it is possible to have one, at least not yet! The good news are that we all have this deep inner space that was never touched by any difficult experience. This inner space is full of love, kindness and compassion! Regardless of what experiences and limited beliefs were imprinted into our unconscious, we all know into our heart what it means to have healthy relations and we all are longing for this kind of relations. Just take a moment and ask sincerely your heart. What kind of relations do you want to have? So deep inside our heart we all know what healthy relations are and we are also longing to experience them! The next step is to find the way to make it Happen!

Make it Happen

The first step to make it happen is to start healing ourselves. To create a healthy and peaceful relation with ourself. We cannot demand from others to change and to fit to our ideals, that’s how we create unhealthy relations. Always the best place to start is with ourselves. We need to be the example we want to see in life! The enlightened teachers say that the life that you experience is a mirror of your inner world. If you want to experience something into the world, you need to create it first within yourself.

Healing Modalities

There are different therapeutic and healing modalities that can help you do this inner work. You can start from a psychologist, psychoanalyst or move towards more alternative methods like meditation, energy healing, hypnosis, n.l.p  e.t.c. What is really important when you start your healing journey is to start with a genuine intention. Your intention is very important because it will guide you to find the healer, therapist or approach that can help you move forward into your path. If your intention is not genuine and you don’t really want to heal yourself, then even the best therapists in the world cannot really help you. With whatever approach you choose to start or continue your healing journey you can combine the Diamond Age Flower Essences with them or just use these essences as a complete approach!

Diamond Age Flower Essences that can help us create Healthy Relations

As a continuation of this article about Healthy Relations and the tools that can help you create this kind of relations I am introducing you to the Diamond Age Flower Essences that can help you find peace within yourself and open your heart to create Healthy Relations with other people. Check all these Diamond Age Flower Essences here… Or  meet each individual flower essence below!

Be yourself

The diamond age flower essence from the vicia lutea flower helps us to recognize the true quality of our being and connect with our true inner identity. This diamond age flower essence helps us to stop connecting with the people through the various masks we have worn in order to be liked and accepted, and to begin to connect with them through our true self with integrity, comfort and grace.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’be yourself’’ gives us the opportunity to know and accept deeply our true inner identity, our true self. This diamond age flower essence helps us to make a clear distinction between the true quality of our being and the character and the faces we have built through the experiences of life.

‘’Be yourself’’ diamond age flower essence supports us to gain integrity for who we are and to have the courage to show our true self regardless of the opinion of others.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’be yourself’’ is particularly useful:

• When we feel we have lost ourselves.
• When we tend to relate with others through different faces pretending something we are not.
• When we feel that if we show our true self, others will reject us and criticize us.
• When we do not like ourselves and tend to do negative self-criticism.
• When we want to become like others and become something other than what we really are.
• When we feel confused about who we are.
• When we feel that we are not accepted from others and want to change ourselves in order to fit to their model of the world.
• When we change the environment and start relating with a new group of people.
• When we need the courage to be ourselves, regardless of the circumstances.
• Or we can simply use this flower essence when we want to understand deeper the true quality of our being and connect with the world through it, with integrity, comfort and grace.

Check this flower essence here…

Unique and equal

The diamond age flower essence from Mathiola tricuspidata flower helps us to recognize the beauty of diversity. This diamond age flower essence helps us to accept our uniqueness as well as that of other people, so that we can feel comfortable and safe to show ourselves and enjoy the interaction with other people.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’unique and equal’’ enables us to overcome the feelings of superiority or inferiority, which are an obstacle to connecting with other people and expanding ourselves. This diamond age flower essence helps us to see that existence does not create copies, but only prototypes, even two daisies that seem to belong to the same flower family, are different from each other.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’unique and equal’’ is particularly useful:

• When we feel inferior or superior to others
• When we tend to criticize and not accept diversity.
• When we have been subjected to any type of racism.
• When we have difficulty connecting and interacting with others.
• When we meet new people or become a member of a new group.
• When we tend to fear or reject people who have different perceptions or beliefs from our own.
• When we have difficulty cooperating with others.
• When we are shy and we tend to stay in the background.
• Or we can just use this flower essence when we feel the need to connect with our uniqueness, recognize the uniqueness of others and enjoy the rich canvas of life.

Check this flower essence here…

Understanding

The diamond age flower essence from delphinium halteratum flower helps us to let go of rigid ideas about what’s wrong and what’s right for others to do, from our desire to change them, and from the tendency to try to impose to others our own model of the world. This diamond age flower essence helps us to accept and love others just as they are without wanting to change anything on them, express our opinion with love and allow them to follow their own path in life.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’understanding’’ enables us to look beyond the obvious and to understand the deeper meaning that may exist behind the choices and behaviors of others or of what happens in our lives. This diamond age flower essence helps us to understand that nothing is accidental in life and that everything is happening for a reason.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’understanding’’ is particularly useful:

• When we have the tendency to wonder “why all this is happening to me”
• When we are obsessed with our opinion and want to change others.
• When we believe someone does not know what is good for him and we insist that he should follow our advice.
• When we tend to dislike and criticize the behaviors and choices of others.
• When it is difficult to understand and process the experiences of life.
• When we tend to repress ourselves by living our life through many should and should nots.
• When we tend to be narrow-minded about how life should be.
• When we are angry with others because they do not follow our own worldview.
• Or we can just use this flower essence when we want to find a sense of peace and acceptance for others and what happens in our lives.

Check this flower essence here…

Straight to the point

The diamond age flower essence from vicia melanops flower helps us to let go of the tendency to go round and round when we approach ourselves, others or an important issue. This diamond age flower essence gives us the courage and maturity to be honest with ourselves and others, to go to the heart of the issue and stop wasting time and energy in unnecessary circles.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’straight to the point’’ enables us to look at ourselves and face ourselves, others and the various issues with integrity, prudence and maturity. This diamond age flower essence helps us to take an inner position through which we can see and express our truth with objectivity and without evasion.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’straight to the point’’ is particularly useful:

• When we hesitate to ask directly for what we want and we tend to go round and round.
• When we believe that the truth hurts.
• When we have difficulty expressing what we really want to say and put in an indirect way.
• When we repress our truth.
• When we are afraid of the truth and we avoid it.
• When we tend to lie and deceive ourselves and others.
• When we are afraid and avoid touching an issue that brings us pain or puts us in an uncomfortable position.
• When we tend to clutter our weaknesses and phobias.
• Or we can just use this flower essence when we feel the need to be honest with ourselves, to build honest relations with others and to live our truth with integrity and maturity.

Check this flower essence here…

Warm & genuine

The diamond age flower essence from trifolium tomentosum flower showers us with a sense of warmth and security. This diamond age flower essence helps us overcome the fears that make us to be distant with others. ‘’Warm and genuine’’ diamond age flower essence helps us to connect with other people in a warm and truthful way, to be open and accessible, and at the same time to feel secure and protected.

This diamond age flower essence enables us to come closer to others and connect with them in a deeper and more genuine way. The diamond age flower essence ‘’warm and genuine’’ helps us to open ourselves and embrace others with understanding and warmth, thus being able to build true meaningful relations.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’warm and genuine’’ is particularly useful:

• When we tend to be cold and distant in our relations with other people.
• When we believe that people are bad and that if we are open, vulnerable, authentic and come close to others we will be hurt.
• when we have grown up or live in a violent environment.
• When we have difficulty in opening ourselves and creating relationships.
• When we have been hurt by a separation and are afraid to open and love again.
• When we avoid being touched either physically or emotionally.
• When we have been hurt and have frozen our emotions.
• Or we can just use this flower essence when we want to relate with life and people in a more open, receptive, warm and genuine way.

Check this flower essence here…

Regaining innocence

The diamond age flower essence from the trifolium pilulare flower helps us to gain access to our inner purity and innocence. This diamond age flower essence helps us to let go of distorted ideas and beliefs related with these qualities .’’Regaining innocence’’ diamond age flower essence supports us to embrace purity and innocence in a balanced way and to see the true power that exists within these wonderful qualities.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’regaining innocence’’ enables us to connect the purity and innocence of our being with the maturity and knowledge we have acquired during our lives. This diamond age flower essence helps us to let go of fears and restrictive beliefs related to these qualities and to start living our lives with awareness and maturity through the purity and innocence of our being.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’regaining innocence’’ is particularly useful:

• When we feel we have lost our innocence and purity.
• When we feel that we have been tricked.
• When we regard innocence and purity as weaknesses.
• When we try to achieve things in wicked ways.
• When we have experienced situations in which our innocence has not been respected.
• When we are suspicious of the world and afraid that others will fool us.
• When we do not claim growth, development and success because we believe that only with wickedness can one move forward.
• When we find it difficult to connect with others in a pure and true way.
• Or we can simply use this flower essence when we want to be connected with life through innocence, awareness and maturity, bringing to the surface the purity of our being.

Check this flower essence here…

Detachment

The diamond age flower essence from the trifolium campestre flower helps us to be detached and not take personally other people behaviors. This diamond age flower essence helps us to let go of various images we have built for ourselves based on the behaviors of others towards us and to free ourselves from various fears about what others will say about us.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’detachment’’ enables us to change the perception through which we interact with the world. To move from the limited perception of the ego (character-personality) that takes everything personally, into the expanded perception that comes through the inner state of detachment and stillness of mind.

This diamond age flower essence helps us to be free and act independently from the opinions and behaviors of others, to have space and understanding in relation to them and at the same time to be unaffected to our sense of self and our direction in life.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’detachment’’ is particularly useful:

• When we tend to take personally the behaviors of others.
• When we care too much about what others will say about us and put restrictions on ourselves.
• When we are bothered by a situation and need to look at it from a distance.
• When it comes to dealing with something that is associated with our personal fears.
• When we want to overcome the limitations of our personality.
• When we are too attached to our personality and have difficulties to interact with other people.
• When the attitudes of others have affected the image we have for ourselves.
• When we tend to be over influenced by the opinions and attitudes of others.
• Or we can simply use this flower essence when we want to be into a state of inner stillness, connect with the qualities of understanding, compassion and goodness that stem from it and perceive ourselves and the world from a more expanded and non-personal view.

Check this flower essence here…

Universal heart

The diamond age flower essence from the flower silene colorata helps us to open our hearts into the state of acceptance. This diamond age flower essence supports us to be able to have space within our being and to accept others as they are, with their positive and negative aspects.

‘’Universal heart’’ diamond age flower essence brings a sense of understanding and acceptance and helps us to not allow the weaknesses of our character or those of others to interfere with our relationships, to be able to overcome the things that separates us and focus on what unites us.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’universal heart’’ enables us to connect with the vast space of the cosmic heart that is connected to the hearts of all beings, with this deep and at the same time so subtle feeling of love, acceptance, compassion and warmth that flows from the heart of existence and from the center of our own heart. This diamond age flower essence helps us to have a stable center in our hearts and from there to expand our beautiful qualities to the world and build relationships that overcome our ego and the weaknesses of our personality.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’universal heart’’ is particularly useful:

• When we tend to focus on what separates us and not on what unites us.
• When we feel separated from others, from life and from love.
• When we cannot accept the weaknesses of others and come into conflict trying to change them.
• When we are afraid and do not trust to connect through our hearts with others.
• When we find it difficult to coexist with others.
• When a separation has affected us negatively.
• When there is a strong sense of separation from the source and love and we feel unaccepted.
• When we are going through a separation.
• Or we can just use this flower essence when we want to deepen our connection to the center of our heart and the universal heart.

Check this flower essence here…

Softness

The diamond age flower essence from the linaria flower helps us to soften and gives us the strength to live life through the softness of our being. This diamond age flower essence brings harmony to aspects of ourselves that have become rough through the difficulties of life. The diamond age flower essence ‘’softness’’ helps us to see that someone who has become rough has not necessarily become stronger but in fact has become rigid and has moved away from his nature.

This diamond age flower essence enables us to keep the softness of our being alive and to function through that space even when we are in difficult situations where we would have acted in a rough or competitive way, or when we have to deal with people who behave in a harsh way and do not count the feelings of others.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’softness’’ is particularly useful:

• When we tend to express and confirm ourselves with competitiveness and roughness.
• When we tend to grab what we want without caring about the feelings of others.
• When we function through the belief that the world is tough and in order to survive you have to be tough, cunning and competitive.
• When we feel unable to manifest ourselves in life because within us we feel soft, vulnerable and shy, while the outside world seems to be tough and competitive.
• When through the difficulties and the pain we may have experienced, we ended up freezing our feelings and adopted a rough attitude towards ourselves and others.
• When we operate through the belief that because I have been hurt and have had difficulties in life, the others should have to go through the same experiences I did.
• When we are convinced that the sense of humanity does not exist and that if you live life through, it, you will be fooled.
• Or we can just use this flower essence when we want to soften within us and bring more softness, caring and humanity to our life.

Check this flower essence here…

True connection

The diamond age flower essence from lathyrus annuus flower helps us to get in tune with the sense of contentment that comes through the connection with our true self. This diamond age flower essence helps us to feel emotionally complete and whole within our being.

‘’True connections’’ diamond age flower essences helps us to create true and unselfish relationships, without seeking to take something from others in order to fill our gaps but to share our inner contentment and the beauty of each moment.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’true connection’’ enables us to connect truthfully and unconditionally with others without waiting for something in return. This diamond age flower essence helps us to let go of emotional dependence on others.

 ‘’True connections’’ diamond age flower essence supports us to not create fake friendships and relationships in order to use the resources and capabilities of others, but to respect our own and other’s human existence and to build true and honest relationships.

The diamond age flower essence ‘’true connection’’ is particularly useful:

• When we try to fill our emotional gaps through other people, food, alcohol, etc.
• When we believe that we will be content only when we will have achieve our goals.
• When we use our friends and relationships as a vehicle in order to achieve our outcomes.
• When we have forgotten how to connect and relate with someone without expectations.
• When we are emotionally dependent on a situation, person or activity.
• When we have been emotionally manipulated.
• When it is not easy for us to resist various temptations and negative habits.
• Or we can simply use this flower essence when we want to embrace deeper the contentment that exists into our being.

Check this flower essence here…

What are Diamond Age Flower Essences

Diamond Age Flower Essences are flower essences which contain within them the vibration (energy) that each plant vibrates and the energy of the Diamond.

The main theme of diamond age flower essences is to help us recognize our true natural self, to connect with our qualities, gifts and talents. To free ourselves from anxiety and stress, from past restrictive notions and beliefs that cover our true nature and create the life that ​​really expresses our being.

Diamond Age Flower Essences act as catalysts of inner balance and harmony, showering our being with the beautiful vibrations of our higher nature. Diamond age flower essences help us become aware of our own natural potential, become empowered by it and be able to live our life through our own experiential inner truth.

The therapeutic palette of diamond age flower essences contains 64 individual different flower essences and 9 mixtures, giving us the opportunity to have the necessary support in every phase of our lives.

For the preparation of diamond age flower essences have not been used any organic parts of flowers and have not been harmed in any way the flowers, the plants and any other part of the ecological system. The preparation of diamond age flower essences happens with the conscious participation and channeling of the consciousness of the particular flower and the energy of the diamond.

The activation of diamond age flower essences happens through ritual, meditation and prayer. They are presented to and blessed from the seven directions, the four elements and the divine consciousness. All the Diamond Age Flower essences are completely natural and handmade. Have been created as a result of inner guidance, with love and pure intention from Omprakash (K. Jaupi).

Are Diamond Age Flower Essences suitable for everyone?

Diamond Age Flower Essences are absolutely safe and can be used by the whole family. They do not contain any organic ingredient from the flowers, but only their vibration and for this reason Diamond Age Flower Essences have no side effects.

How can I use Diamond Age Flower Essences?

Diamond Age Flower essences are very easy to use:

Step 1: dilution – put 9 drops of the concentrated essence into a 20 ml bottle and fill the remaining of the bottle with half brandy and half fresh spring water. This is called the treatment bottle.

Step 2: From this bottle put 4 drops 4 times a day (morning, noon, afternoon and evening) on top of your head.

How many Diamond Age Flower Essences can I use at the same time?

You can make a blend with up to 6 Diamond Age Flower Essences in one bottle. use the treatment bottle of the Diamond Age Flower Essence until you finish it. 3-4 days after finishing your treatment you can continue with the same essence or move to another one.

Diamond Age Flower Essences can become a good combination with mushrom and butterfly spirit essences.

Learn more about Diamond Age Flower Essences Here…

Hope you found useful this article and send you my best wishes for you to create beautiful and genuine healthy relations!

With love,

Omprakash K. Jaupi